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  • Aganim@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comTheory
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    2 months ago

    Fuck it, I don’t seem to have AD(H)D. That’s why I’ve spent the better part of the day recharging so I could pretend to be social in the evening while on vacation with the in-laws and a 2-year old niece. I can’t fucking filter her screams, the noise of having 7 adults around me and I’m so fucking glad of not having kids myself.



  • Aganim@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comIKR?
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    2 months ago

    Yeah, that’s how it usually goes when I go to the GP. Can’t express myself, mind goes blank or gets tangled in what I want to say. For my ‘I think I might have ADHD’ talk I also wrote down everything on notes, condensed them to a checklist and just worked through that. Really helped in getting a coherent story across.


  • Aganim@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comIKR?
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    2 months ago

    That’s rough, sorry to hear that. I only got diagnosed in my late 30’s, ever since high school I felt like something about me was off.

    Daydreaming? “Well, you’ve got an IQ of 135, so you are just bored.”

    Incapable of starting homework? “Completely normal, you are just bored, try harder.”

    At some point I convinced myself I was just lazy, it was only when I hit a roadblock professionally I was finally able to convince a doctor that this could not go on any longer.

    It sucks knowing something is wrong, but having to fight to get taken seriously. I hope you are able to find the help you need soon.


  • Aganim@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comIKR?
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    2 months ago

    Made me (diagnosed with ADHD-I) chuckle, that could definitely be me. Usually one of these:

    • Forget the appointment altogether.
    • Remember appointment, be unable to do anything beforehand, find something to distract me of that impending appointment dread, forget the appointment that initially took up my entire attention span.


  • Aganim@lemmy.worldtoADHD memes@lemmy.dbzer0.comAnyone relate?
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    2 months ago

    Officially it’s ADHD-I (inattentive), ADHD-H (hyperactive) and ADHD-C (combined).

    But over here even specialists still often just call it ADD. It’s less of a mouthful and more well-known. Personally I also use ADD, as it often saves the hassle of having to explain I’m usually not hyperactive.








  • I let my password manager create 32 char passwords, that should be enough for a while. But of course then you have websites that throw you a ‘your password is too long’ message and have you find out by trial and error that they only accept 12 characters.

    Or the off-by-one errors where they insist that 24 chars are the max, but in reality they accept 23. Probably never tested the limit.

    Or websites that truncate your password after X characters when registering, but not when logging in, so you end up with an incorrect password and good luck finding out which limit the registration page actually uses.