Of course there’s a best solution… it’s whatever you end up with

I’m the other way around, I absolutely do not care about charging speed at all.

My phone is on the charger at night. If it charges in less than 6 hours or so, I literally wouldn’t notice a difference ever. Battery always lasts for at least a day.

these people didnt post those pictures with the intent for someone to jack off to.

An assumption. How do you know? In my view, posting your own pics on social media is at least in some way meant to display yourself in a pleasing manner to other people. I’m sure many people post themselves on social media to be admired. And I’ve seen so many instances of people specifically displaying their cleavage or skimpy outfits or for men going topless etc.

It’s really not that farfetched that people post pics on social media with at least the awareness that they might possibly or even likely be masturbated to.

Totally fair. Sounds fun :)

I just kinda wonder why when you’re in a browser or node, you wouldn’t just do

const json = {...};
json.friends.filter(f => f.age >= 18);

why learn another language when you already literally got the language to process JavaScript Object Notation right there.

https://jqlang.org/

I’ve been using that for all my JSON extraction and processing needs. Let me automate a bunch of my builds for JS stuff for FoundryVTT https://gitlab.com/foundry-azzurite/pings/-/blob/master/build/build.sh

The mindset of clinging to this connection just makes it harder, trust me.

In online dating you have at least a 70% random loss rate that you have no real control over or idea what went wrong. Even in “real” dating, approaching people during hobbies etc, it doesn’t work in like 30-50% of the cases where you thought there were sparks.

I know that it’s hard, but you’ll find someone again. A blue moon happened once, it’ll happen again :)

People randomly stop writing. Just let her go and find the next one. Maybe after like a week or two, ask what’s going on.

You can’t change people. They have to want it themselves. If she’s not looking for any help, there’s nothing you can do.

The only thing that might happen if you’re not a very actually good friend with them, is they might dial it back in your presence to not be annoyed by you about it.

Complaining does not constitute “wanting help”. Most people complain just because it makes them feel better in the moment.

Nix zu danken. Ist verständlich das mit dem alleine sein.

Ich hab selbst vor 2.5 Jahren einvernehmlich ne 7 jährige Beziehung beendet, ich habe die Grundlagen geändert und sie hat dann gesagt, dass das für sie nicht geht. War danach auch ziemlich am Arsch xD

Dann mal viel Spaß mit dem remaster. Ich hab zu der Zeit viel Dota gespielt :)

Makes sense to me. I came back to this a little late, did not see your replies to my comment(s) until now. Having read everything you wrote: your parents not at home (I thought they were), she reducing sex massively, her not wanting to talk about you, the increase in contact to the guy, all seemed to me like she was not attracted to you anymore.

I’m really sorry. If you need someone to talk to or something (in German as well if you like, your name sounds like that, I’m from Germany), we can if you want. I haven’t had a situation like this, but I know how much breakups hurt.

So to get to your actual question, from what exactly you wrote you definitely seem to be overreacting to this specific situation. They’re at her parents home, she’s unlikely to have any intentions to cheat on you there.

However, if you don’t mind me saying, your relationship also doesn’t sound completely secure to me. Would you mind some more questions regarding the general relationship and yourself and some advice in that regard or are you fine with this for now? :)

I’m sorry if this is not what you’re asking… But sex 2-3 times a week to 2-4 times a year? Are you really ok with that? This is what stands out to me most here.

I did for a few months/years, but I stopped a while ago. But you’d never have known I was neurodivergent except by watching me for a while, I wasn’t advertising the fact. I assume it’s the same with a bunch of other streamers, there are probably a bunch, but it’d be kinda difficult to figure out.

Apart from that, streaming I think doesn’t particularly lend itself for autistic folk. We’re just usually not as conventionally charismatic and entertaining. I never had more than 5-10 viewers, and I assume it’s similar with others. You only get bigger if you have mainstream appeal, which I think is relatively unlikely for autistic streamers.

So yeah, I’m interested to see other responses to this thread, but I assume there’ll be little.

The reason this is as public as it is is because an archive like this is more useful the more is archived. If you manage it in an entirely hidden way, you basically won’t get it accessible from the clearnet and are relegated to keep it on Tor or similar. And once you do that, a lot less people will use it and thus it’ll be a lot less useful.

Also, they are not only fighting for an archive to exist, they’re fighting for it being a societally acceptable thing to exist.

Basically you just get a job in some way. I became a programmer and thus earned enough money to afford an apartment by myself. And then I just did that.

Most western countries also have some kind of social safety net. Dunno about Australia. But most often they wouldn’t force you to live with your parents if you lose your job.

There’s something uniquely different to not live together with other people anymore. For everyone I’ve talked to, including myself, living alone for a while was an incredibly important experience, not replaceable by simply “doing things for yourself”.

Only when there’s no one around can you truly figure out what you would want yourself. As long as there’s immediate interaction, just even being seen doing something, there’s some kind of influence on our psyche by this interaction. There’s just some large difference to when you’re completely independent/alone for a while.

Being able to do stuff like you say is fine and makes sense and is good preparation, but it’s just not in the same ballpark at all.

That doesn’t work, you can’t train models on another model’s output without degrading the quality. At least not currently.

What’s wrong with cksfv?

https://annas-archive.org/ for all books.

“I have things I need to do” - what things?

Yeap you’ll need 15 years or so. I needed that long.