Is there a list of any discourse “instances”?

I use fediverse.observer (https://nodebb.fediverse.observer/list)

Whoa, thank you! Flarum is federated? I had no idea, that’s amazing!

I’m just curious

People in that mindset have their mind set, they just want to hear what they see as validation from you that this person does hate them. They won’t listen to other opinions, their mind is set.

Thanks!

I just checked and it redirects to lemmy.ml for me, too.