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Cake day: July 3rd, 2023

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  • Man, one thing that kills me is democrats perpetually eating up the rabid opposition to populism. Like, I get it, obviously establishment democrats are gonna push back since it directly affects their status, but it’s like democrats have been falling into this stupid politics as a team sport bullshit real hard in recent years, and you see it with the blanket demonization of something like populism of all things. “Like, akshuallee, the elites are good bro”. They don’t think for themselves anymore.


  • Man, I think we tend to see stuff like this and oversimplify it as “hUmAn BaD” without actually engaging with what’s going on. I think focusing on farmer’s interactions with the lions running into their property is much more apt than the writer realizes. While it’s true the lack of legislation, poor land management, and predator stigma are all big issues in why lions are getting killed so much in Estosha, but I think the core issue we should grapple with is our general view of living space with other animals.

    In our back yard, we’re trying to do our best to cultivate a space that not only benefits us, but also the local wildlife. That means no mowing, no chasing off rabits or squirrels, planting natives, chop/drop invasives(or burning the ones that make it to seed), FUCKING LEAVE THE LEAVES, composting, etc. The attitude my spouse and I are trying to cultivate is to co-exist with the local wildlife, because it’s their home, too. I’m thinking much less about how to protect my property from them and more about considering all my neighbors. The city says it wants us to do a manicured grass lawn like everyone else “for the health and well-being of our citizens”, because the legislation was drafted with the premise of wildlife being a threat vector of disease and property damage. While we’re groaning away about the destruction of the habitats of wildlife due macroeconomic factors, we fail to see it’s manifestation in our literal backyard. Yeah, lions are being killed by humans because the lions directly threaten the farmers’ livelihood by hunting/killing their livestock, but maybe the solution isn’t merely legislation to reduce human and lion interactions with fence and shelter requirements, more zoning laws, and tracking lion movement. Maybe we can find a solution that benefits the lions since, ya know, it’s their home, too.

    What if we started bringing into consideration the rights of local wildlife before drafting legislation? Where I would much rather consider the moral obligation exclusively and primarily, I should also bring up that we not only can and should have a mutually beneficial relationship with local wildlife, but we do, indeed, ultimately need them. In my backyard alone, bunnies keep eating up a bunch of invasive plants and their poop is fantastic natural fertilizer, dragonflies/damselflies keep the mosquito population in check, birds help spread seeds and keep grub worm/spider populations in check, coyotes and snakes keep the rodent and bunny population in check, isopods help break down all the poop to keep the nutrient cycle going, bacteria in the soil provide nutrients directly to the plants growing in the yard, ground-cover plants shield the soil bacteria from solar radiation that would otherwise kill them, the shrubs around or house grow deep roots to keep the soil in place around our foundation, the trees provide shade to keep ground temperatures steady and shelter for them critters, etc. The benefits from wildlife aren’t limited to distant functions like the food we eat, the materials they provide, or helping keep neature neat, you can see them right out your window-- even in the big city!

    On top of that, we do have an obligation to protect local wildlife from climate change caused by the worst of our species AND we also need their help to combat climate change. While I would prefer our moral compass would be sufficient to support the argument to manage our collective approach to wildlife interactions, I cannot ignore the fact that the practical application is also an act of self-preservation for us all.

    TL;DR: While local farmers protecting their livestock from lions is becoming a primary threat to lions’ existence, I think the core issue is bigger than just extinction of certain species, but the problem of framing it as “humans vs other animals” when Earth is their hometown, too.

    Even shorter TL;DR: The real problem is fucking NIMBYs.


  • Should probably mention that the survey for this study was conducted in Australia in 2021 as an online self-report survey. It was funded by the government and the participants were selected and invited via text/email, though. I say this to contextualize more than anything else.

    From reading the solutions considered as potentially effective in the paper, it would seem there’s still a big patriarchy problem for younger men in Australia. While it does show younger men had work commitments as a disproportionately higher barrier for them than older men, I wonder how much of it is typical corpo discouragement versus the “gRiNdSeT mInDsEt” bullshit getting shoved on them by those grifter finance-bros on social media. I get that it’s outside the scope of the paper, but surely things like that need more consideration in these studies if they’re looking into this for better health engagement(which is, admittedly, my assumption). I dunno, it just seems like all we’re doing is treating superficial symptoms when some of the suggestions are framing getting medical help as ‘strong rather than weak’ or that pro-active medical consultations can be framed as optimizing job performance.


  • Man, ‘potentially’ sure is doing some heavy lifting here. For those of you that didn’t read the article, looks like they’re talking about oxidation in the context of the introduction of outdoor ozone inside, combined with all the regular-ass pollutants from cooking, cleaning, etc. The oxidation cloud in question we produce is coming from our naturally secreted oils, which was dampened by lotions and perfumes acting as a barrier. The potentially harmful portion came from the interaction of said oxidation cloud interacting with whatever else is in the air, like what comes out of our sofa when we sit on it. It would seem to be that it’s only potentially harmful because we haven’t really studied these interactions that much yet. You’d be just as correct in saying it’s potentially beneficial.

    The real news to me is that we haven’t really studied stuff like this that much. I would have assumed we would have studied the health effects of indoor air from this kind of source many times before, but I usually forget that I tend to severely overestimate the patience researchers have for controlling a variety of highly specific variables. ¯_(ツ)_/¯



  • Hey, sorry for the late reply, but like… ya know, ADHD.

    Sounds to me like you already practice some Stoic principles and that’s fucking fantastic! I think you might also benefit from the writings of Epictetus, specifically in his Discourses. He talks about the Dichotomy of Control, which I think is something that would be beneficial to you to study. It’s certainly been a world of help for clarity of thought for me.


  • Hello, so I’m not autistic as far as I’m aware, but I do have ADHD-C and have also greatly struggled with anxiety throughout my life. I hope my experience and knowledge can be of some use to you.

    To start off, man, hard relate on both those fears. I mean different mechanism for me in terms of fear of trying new things since it’s more of a “how much time and money am I gonna sink into this obsessively only to completely lose interest in an indeterminate amount of time?”. And to your second point, yeah, the world isn’t built for those of us who aren’t nt. I could go on and on about many anxieties I continue to struggle with to this day, including worry about never truly gaining mastery over myself, losing access to healthcare and/or medication my wife and I need, and external events of climate change, political turmoil, anti-intellectualism, misinformation campaigns, and academics seeming to be losing their fucking minds when it comes to anything philosophy related. I just want to let you know that you’re not alone.

    As for how I’ve dealt with this in my life, it’s primarily come down to Stoic philosophy. Especially when it comes to the anxiety, it’s usually about the framing of how I think about something–much like how modern therapy looks for underlying beliefs and/or experiences that may be a root cause. Someone cuts me off while I’m driving, so I become angry, but it isn’t the other driver that has made me angry, it’s my opinion on the matter. While it’s true that they shouldn’t do such things because it’s unsafe and can cause harm, it’s possible that they didn’t do that on purpose and/or out of malice. Even if they did, what would my anger truly accomplish other than increasing my potential to escalate the situation? In fact, if they truly are a ‘dumbass’ or ‘idiot’, why would I become angry with them when they act according to their nature? Ultimately, I’m not in control of that person, so why react in emotional futility? I’m in control of me and how I treat others with respect, kindness, and charity. I just give them some extra space for everyone’s safety and move on. It’s about what I can and cannot control. I cannot control these externalities of reality. It’s reality, why not just neutrally accept it as such? I must keep in mind that I always have the option of not having an opinion.

    I’ve always struggled with anxiety in my relationships and my marriage is no exception. I fucking love my wife. She my best friend, the best lover I’ve ever had, and my whole world. But I don’t own her. She isn’t mine to keep forever. As the bittersweet saying goes; this too shall pass. She could leave me, she could suddenly and rapidly decline in health, she could die today or in 3,000 years, we could be married for just one more year or maybe 100 more years, who knows? What I do know and can do now is love and appreciate her now, because, well, she is what matters to me and someday she will no longer be in my life. I must admit that despite my many years of therapy, bettering myself, and practicing Stoic philosophy, I’m certain I couldn’t handle suddenly losing my wife right now. I don’t mean that in the sense that I ought to be able to emotionally shrug it off, because that’s insane, unrealistic, and counter to Stoic philosophy, but rather in the sense that I would lose rationality. While I recognize this is a problem, I have found that it’s something that is too insurmountable for me to master on my own. So yeah, I still need therapy and I must accept that this is where I am in my efforts to master myself.

    The important techniques I’ve learned that have worked for me that come from Stoic philosophy is daily self-reflection, mindfulness, constant reminders of what I do/do not control, reminders that I will inevitably run into daily troubles, and ‘amor fati’(or ‘love your fate’, that is: to not only accept your life as it is, but to love and appreciate it while you have what you have). Constant self-reflection is crucial because no one truly “controls” how they immediately react to things, as it’s the beliefs that will dictate the outcome of your reaction. I became more calm as a driver because of my end-of-day self-reflections in examining why I reacted the ways I did and honestly reasoning with myself about it, which led to me catching myself in those reactions more and more until the unreasonable behavior waned into the past. It’s the same with my anxieties, although much more of a game of whack-a-mole and work in progress. But boy have those moles dramatically decreased their frequency in popping up and boy have I regained so much of my life by no longer ceding control of myself to them.

    If you want further resources, I strongly recommend reading Meditations by Marcus Aurelius. I can also recommend videos from The Daily Stoic with the asterisk that he can get a little… ‘markety’ every now and again. As I like to say; eat the meat and throw out the bones. And, of course, I always recommend finding a good therapist that you click with as this stuff is their specialty. I mean, obviously, sure, but I think it’s worth mentioning that much of modern therapy finds it’s roots in Stoic Philosophy. Anyway, I hope my wall of text is of some use to you or anyone else who took the time to read. I’m open to questions, comments, and any accusations… or just a shrug. It’s up to you, afterall, I’m not in control of you.😘

    TL;DR: Can relate, although not autistic. You’re not alone, your feelings are valid, I recommend Stoic philosophy, I give examples of how it helped me, read Meditations, and I feel gross for using an emoji, but like ¯_(ツ)_/¯