Mindset is key to being mentally healthy for sure. It’s also the hardest thing to change.
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Also, if there’s one thing I’ve learned from my somewhat lengthy relationship: we’re all “difficult” one way or another, someone is already ‘accommodating’ you if you have any friends/family/loved ones.
Can’t stress this one enough. We’re all that person to others from time to time. Being more positive than negative helps to combat that.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What was it like to re-enter "corporate" after an extended time away from working?4·3 days agoPart of succeeding in corporate (and not hating work life) is knowing who to go to to get stuff changed. Even companies with shitty culture still want to improve things since that usually makes the profit go up. Using their own greed to improve things is a manipulative art. If you’re doing that already then congratulations! Most just wallow in their situation instead of changing it (which is in their control).
The best you can do is look for a company who has a great work culture. Then you can really help foster change without being in management since management will be open to better ways of doing things and should actually listen. At least if your idea is shot down you usually get the why behind it and are now apart of the chain of decision making, giving you ownership.
Just don’t get suckered into a company that says they have a great culture without actually having one. Read their mission/culture statement. Missing servant leadership? Missing customers and employees at the core of what they do? Talk most about shareholder value? Talk about intense training? Red flag city. Avoid if you can.
Sorry if I’m on an unrelated tangent to what you’re experiencing. I ran into this the other day with an interviewee and holy hell, I could see why he was getting out of that type of company. Utter BS culture statement.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•For a bathroom sink, is it acceptable to angle a P Trap arm downwards, in order to give more clearance underneath?7·3 days ago
This is clever as hell. Don’t know if it’ll pass code though if you’re already permitted. I’m sure it’ll work just fine, but how long is unknown since it’s new(er) technology.If you have enough space, it looks like this one might be a better alternative since you can open the front to clean the membrane out (which you will need to do to keep it sealed over time).
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•For a bathroom sink, is it acceptable to angle a P Trap arm downwards, in order to give more clearance underneath?5·3 days agoPhotos would definitely help.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world•What was it like to re-enter "corporate" after an extended time away from working?2·3 days agoAgree with you on the shareholder POV but for the software, that’s every company everywhere since it’s just the nature of software at the moment, none of it is perfect and won’t ever be as long as an imperfect being is programming it.
43 male, have 3 kids. They’re a ton of work but they’re also incredibly rewarding. The house is full of love and joy constantly. I can’t imagine life without them (and my wife) and I wouldn’t want to live in it if they were no longer here. That’s how much of an impact they have on you.
That’s said, totally respect you not wanting them. They’re one of the biggest sacrifices and commitments.
You’re an amazing mother!
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•UI is eating more into my content with each redesign1·3 days agoI have because Safari is just better UI wise on iPhone and syncs to macOS’s Safari. I really don’t like any other browser on iOS.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•UI is eating more into my content with each redesign1·3 days agoBeta 1 definitely doesn’t represent the final UI product. If you compare it to the WWDC Liquid Glass video, they’ve got tweaking to do. However with that said, LG is so much better in person and in use than pictures and video portray.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•UI is eating more into my content with each redesign1·3 days agoIt’s exactly the opposite on iPhone. Most of the chrome is now extremely minimized. He’s just bitching about macOS.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•Apple introduces a delightful and elegant new software design4·8 days agoIt’s not embarrassing, it’s a beta. This will 100% get better over the months. It always does.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•Apple just proved AI "reasoning" models like Claude, DeepSeek-R1, and o3-mini don't actually reason at all. They just memorize patterns really well.2·9 days agoThey most definitely are understood. The basics of what they’re doing doesn’t change. Garbage in, garbage out.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•Apple just proved AI "reasoning" models like Claude, DeepSeek-R1, and o3-mini don't actually reason at all. They just memorize patterns really well.3·9 days agoYou aren’t wrong by in this case, nothing needs to be proven by a 3rd party since anyone recently in programming knows how LLMs works. It’s factual.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Nintendo@lemmy.world•My controller has v3.06, now a I need a Switch 2English3·11 days agoI wish I had that much free time. Bots likely?
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Nintendo@lemmy.world•My controller has v3.06, now a I need a Switch 2English6·11 days agoWho downvotes this!? Madness.
QuarterSwede@lemmy.worldto Apple@lemmy.world•Apple’s Find My app didn’t work in S. Korea for 15 years – a user’s 19-month campaign changed that2·23 days agoThis is why you never listen to the naysayers. Kudos to Mr Hwang.
Because limiting Federal power has been the theme of the US since the beginning. The founders were so afraid of it going the way of monarchy that they didn’t see the consequences this could have back then. Not arguing for or against that, just stating the “why” since you asked.
And the funny thing is that when you’re positive it attracts other positive people so you slowly start having that around you more and more which helps your positivity grow and become self-sustaining.