Call me Lenny/Leni

It’s nice to meet all you. I am she/her, can speak Toki Pona and English (non-natively), and locatable on Reddit as MozartWasARed. The links at https://discord.gg/sEuSSDz6TQ and https://www.deviantart.com/triagonal/art/My-copyright-policy-and-the-impact-it-extends-into-906668443 are pertinent to me.

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Cake day: June 30th, 2023

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  • I understood both of those just fine, even understanding the first one before even attempting the second one. Not saying this to throw shade on anyone, but it wasn’t impossible if I stayed with it because you’re supposed to be steady with it.

    When saying something complicated (not because of its word choice but because of its premise), is it not typical or natural to tend to choose what one says based on what will expand more easily and what one considers accurate? Suppose you were describing an attitude. You could say “they have a lot of hate”, with “hate” being a recognizable word. Or you could say “they have a lot of disdain”, which is more specific than “hate” but which might be more accurate. You could choose a word for the vibes, the simplicity, the accuracy, the generalization, the speed, etc. and I tend to choose precision because of transparency and because I am anti-lazy.

    The problem comes when someone is confused and I offer to paraphrase and they give me the cold shoulder due to displeasure (as well as saying they don’t understand something to be avoidant, which, and I’m serious when I say this, you can often guess based on how they do the first thing and inconsistently exaggerate the issue just to dominate the vibes). I am not entitled to anything, none of you are entitled to anything, and I try to make things as easy as I can and be negotiative (quick note, let’s use this word negotiative as an example… I literally couldn’t fit that in any other way and still have the effect I was aiming for), but then the reaction turns into a weaponized fad rather than something genuine, and I can prove this. Again, transparency. That guides a lot of my habits.



  • I know what nuance and humor typically mean. Which is why I pointed out that humor is subjective, i.e. there have been times people say I can be humorous, yet I’m not invalidating your opinion of my humor. Nuance, on the other hand, typically means complexity, depth, etc. and my willingness to analyze matters like wealth abuse case-by-case by dissecting the lives of individuals involved, for example, often leads me to wonder if people who say “down with all billionaires”, as has been the case for those advocating copycats of the CEO attack, themselves have any nuance. Generally speaking though, I for one am not one to shame anyone just because of things like lacking nuance or humor.




  • refusing to engage with people litterally interested in understanding you

    I’ve been the one asking which parts people don’t understand, ready to paraphrase, and I have, but there was only one time when someone genuinely answered instead of leaving the question alone except to give thumbs down.

    If I were to ask you questions like “what parts don’t you understand” or “can you give me what stands out”, what would your answer be? For those who don’t have one, there you go. I’m the one trying to work with everyone, most people here have just shunned even that, sometimes saying nothing and something responding with “boo hoo” sentences like that (for the record, “the world” isn’t against me, in fact I’m in several of the mod-exclusive servers and they are complimenting my stance/approach… as opposed to hysteric laypeople).

    Do you see me resorting to jabs? Would it be a reach to guess that, in your words, this behavior is a part of a broader pattern?