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Cake day: March 30th, 2025

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  • This.

    I grew out of video gaming the moment I started to realize that games are a manufactured irreality where nothing you do really matters, because once you quit the game you gained nothing in life, it is a well engineered time sink.

    Since my time became a scarce resource and I started to value it, only a rare unique mind twisting puzzle game or short experimental experience might be worth my time, but I will not touch games that eat hundreds of hours of your life for well, nothing at all.

    Also, when I was young and had almost no friends, games were a refuge and distraction, now I don’t need them. If at all, now I’d rather play a board game with other people, because it’s wholesome real world interactions and social fun.




  • Yeah, I’m also more on the time blindness overcompensation club.

    If I have no time fixed, minutes stretch into hours.

    If I have some fixed time scheduled, I live by the clock and will rather be way too early than a little to late.

    I have to trick my non ADHD wife to be on time, because if there’s a schedule, I’m the master time keeper.

    Being late is just way more stressful and I hate rushing and the anxiety of being too late to the train or some doctor or whatever.

    My coping mechanism is to have the anxiety way earlier than other people. Everyone believes I’m amazingly organized.





  • Yeah same, I’ve tried many things but I managed to always justify to myself the purchase to make sure I’m not wasting too much money on stuff that will just use space and be unused. Still happens, but could be much much worse. Some things I come back from time to time, when the hyperfocus cycle brings me back to it, like musical instruments. Some things I only ever get the entry level stuff because I know I will move on way before reaching some stage where I need better equipment…









  • I can’t get over how it feels like it wants to take over my senses.

    I also hate voice messages. I ingest content on my terms and at my pace, thank you very much. And both rambling voice messages and short, absurdly dense but still shallow videos both disrespect me in different ways. One is usually too slow for my attention, the other too fast.

    There are no videos or podcasts that are addicting to me, I like reading and writing more than listening. My ADHD brain can’t listen unless you talk to me in the right way to get and hold my focus, i.e. interesting information presented at the right pace.

    Reading lets me be me - I can skim it, I can re-read it, I can find it later.