• Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    3 months ago

    I hate to say it, but now isn’t the only time it’s a problem.

    This whole “you just need to practice more CBT skills” has been bullshit for like twenty fucking years or more.

    I can “check the facts” all I want, if the facts are that things are irreparably and totally fucked and that this irreparability is hurting me directly I can’t “happy thoughts” my fucking way out of it.

    I’m really tired of being told “you can’t change other people, so you need to work on yourself” when other people are allowed to be giant assholes their whole lives who never have to put one ounce of work into themselves and it’s me and everyone else who is a halfway decent person who has to spend their lives fucking working on ourselves.

    The system is god damned broken and has been god damned broken when we practically reward the worst of us with never having to try to do better while telling the best of us that we just have to do better.

    I’m really, really over it.

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        3 months ago

        Isnt that almost impossible? I wonder how many lotteries you would have to win in a row to be as lucky as you would need to convince billions of people capitalism may be worse than another system and to do something about it

        • riwo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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          3 months ago

          you dont have to convince people based on dry theory. revolution does not necessairily mean a momentary violent insurection that overthrows what was. a revolution can be the process in which you create the structures you wish to see in the future, in the here and now. you then convince people by showing them first hand that it works and that it benefits them.

          here is a great video on how to construct the revolution. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9K6ISx8QEQ

          it has a bit of a slow start, and feels academic but its very very insightful. absolute recomendation.

  • ameancow@lemmy.world
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    3 months ago

    This is actually touching on a real new approach to mental healthcare, which is just accepting that “life is shit” and you’re kinda on your own to find meaning in it, or get to the next high-point that makes it worth living.

    We have to stop expecting things to be stable, normal and comfortable. We had a good, smooth run, things are going back to normal now.